How To Make Your First Dance Perfect
Whether it’s a moment for you and your partner to slow down and embrace for a few minutes, or a full on medley extravaganza to entertain all of your guests, your first dance is an unforgettable moment of togetherness. There are just a few things to think about, to make the moment perfect!
Picking The Perfect First Dance Song
Choosing the ideal first dance song sets the tone for a memorable moment on your big day. Start by reflecting on shared memories, lyrics, and emotions that resonate with both of you. Consider songs that hold personal significance, whether it's the melody of your first date or lyrics that express your love story. Think about the tempo too; slow for a romantic sway or upbeat for a lively start. Don't forget to listen to the lyrics closely to ensure they align with your relationship's vibe. Ultimately, the perfect song is one that speaks to your hearts and celebrates your unique journey together.
Suggestions
"At Last," by Etta James
Lyrics: "At last my love has come along/My lonely days are over and life is like a song, oh yeah"
"XO," by John Mayer
Lyrics: "Your heart is glowing/And I'm crashing into you/Baby kiss me, kiss me"
"Amazed," by Lonestar
Lyrics: "I want to spend the rest of my life with you by my side/Forever and ever"
"All of Me," by John Legend
Lyrics: "Give your all to me/I'll give my all to you/You're my end and my beginning"
"The Way You Look Tonight," by Frank Sinatra
Lyrics: "There is nothing for me but to love you/And the way you look tonight"
First Dance Logistics
Once you've chosen the perfect song, it's time to think about the logistics of making your first dance flow seamlessly. Here are some tips to help you create a magical moment that you'll cherish forever.
Practice Makes Perfect: Even if you're not professional dancers, a little practice can go a long way. Spend some time together practicing your dance moves to ensure you feel confident and comfortable on the big day. Consider taking a dance lesson or two to learn some basic steps and techniques that will make your dance look polished and elegant.
Consider Your Venue: Think about the layout and size of your venue when planning your first dance. If you're dancing in a small space, you may want to choose a slower song and keep your movements simple. For larger venues, you can go all out with a grandiose dance routine that will wow your guests.
Coordinate with Your DJ: Have a chat with your DJ beforehand so they know what to play and at what time. Your DJ will have plenty of experience so you’ll be in safe hands. Just provide them with a copy of your chosen song and any special instructions, such as fade-outs or specific cues. This will ensure that everything runs smoothly and according to plan on the day of your wedding.
Capture the Moment: Don't forget to arrange for a photographer or videographer to capture your first dance on film. These precious memories will last a lifetime and allow you to relive the magic of your wedding day for years to come. Coordinate with your photographer or videographer beforehand and trust them to capture the perfect shot.
Enjoy the Moment: Above all, remember to relax and enjoy the moment during your first dance. This is your time to shine as a couple and celebrate your love in front of your closest friends and family. Don't worry about perfection – just focus on each other and let the music carry you away.
Your first dance is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to share a special moment with your partner and kick off your wedding celebration in style. With a little planning and preparation, you can create a magical experience that you'll remember fondly for the rest of your lives. So choose your song, practice your moves, and get ready to dance the night away!
